Superfluities Redux

by George Hunka
Artistic director, theatre minima

A Theatre Surrounds a City:
Vienna's Burgtheater


Monday, 29 June 2009

My Dinner with André

Louis Malle's classic 1981 My Dinner wtih André, written and performed by director André Gregory and dramatist Wallace Shawn, makes its appearance in the Criterion Collection this month. Notorious for its seemingly simple situation (two men having dinner together) and its wide-ranging conversation, the film is nevertheless a complex investigation of art, avant-garde theatre, friendship, parenthood and aging as the two old friends catch up with each other. "Wally," a moderately successful playwright, seems almost to dread seeing "André," a theatre director, again after some time during which André has been travelling the world and engaging in a series of esoteric investigations, while Wally has been living hand-to-mouth and trying to make ends meet in New York.

The film is usually described as a debate between the spiritualist (André) and the materialist (Wally), high-falutin' mysticism and sheer practical sense, and more often than not Wally's appreciation of the small creature comforts of life is thought to trump André's more abstract musings, but the conclusion is far more subtle than that. It's usually forgotten that it's the spiritualist André who has the last words of the conversation in a haunting dénouement that touches on death, fear, isolation, love, and not least on the friendship we've been privileged to see delineated over the past two hours (the script was crafted by the performers together over a period of years during which it was performed live several times):

ANDRÉ: Of course there's a problem, because the closer you come, I think, to another human being, the more completely mysterious and unreachable that person becomes. I mean, you know, you have to reach out and you have to go back and forth with them, and you have to relate, and yet you're relating to a ghost or something. I don't know, because we're ghosts, we're phantoms. Who are we? And that's to face – to confront the fact that you're completely alone, and to accept that you're alone is to accept death.

WALLY: You mean, because somehow when you are alone, you're alone with death, I mean, nothing's obstructing your view of it, or something like that.

ANDRÉ: Right.

Pause.

WALLY: You know, if I understood it correctly, I think Heidegger said that if you were to experience your own being to the full you'd be experiencing the decay of that being toward death as a part of your experience.

ANDRÉ: You know, in the sexual act there's that moment of complete forgetting, which is so incredible. Then in the next moment you start to think about things: work on the play, what you've got to do tomorrow. I don't know if this is true of you, but I think it must be quite common. The world comes in quite fast. Now that again may be because we're afraid to stay in that place of forgetting, because that again is close to death. Like people who are afraid to go to sleep. In other words: you interrelate and you don't know what the next moment will bring, and to not know what the next moment will bring brings you closer to a perception of death!

You see, that's why I think that people have affairs. Well, I mean, you know, in the theater, if you get good reviews, you feel for a moment that you've got your hands on something. You know what I mean? I mean it's a good feeling. But then that feeling goes quite quickly. And once again you don't know quite what you should do next. What'll happen? Well, have an affair and up to a certain point you can really feel that you're on firm ground. You know, there's a sexual conquest to be made, there are different questions: does she enjoy the ears being nibbled, how intensely can you talk about Schopenhauer in some elegant French restaurant. Whatever nonsense it is. It's all, I think, to give you the semblance that there's firm earth.

Well, have a real relationship with a person that goes on for years, that's completely unpredictable. Then you've cut off all your ties to the land and you're sailing into the unknown, into uncharted seas. I mean, you know, people hold on to these images: father, mother, husband, wife, again for the same reason: because they seem to provide some firm ground. But there's no wife there. What does that mean, a wife? A husband? A son? A baby holds your hands and then suddenly there's this huge man lifting you off the ground, and then he's gone. Where's that son?

A fine new essay by Amy Taubin on the film was posted last week on the Criterion Web site. If you haven't seen the film, or if you haven't seen it in a number of years, it's worth watching.

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